is it culture or just him?

[Shifty-Sidney]

Hey Ladyskype,
I may not be good with relationships (especiall just now!) lol. But i am pretty good with character and behaviour or people. Your hubby appears to be having a self esteem crisis. He is starting to doubt you and your loyalty for him. This is quite usual for guys of this age - i think we all go through it. He probably thinks that by not wearing these things you are showing he is not the provider in your relationship. Like many men do not like a girl to earn a lot of money because then they can be independant. Talk to him and tell him how you feel - he just needs to feel wanted and needed - by controlling you he is making himself feel like a better man. It takes a few more years and experiences before most men learn to appreciate a girl and treat her as a true equal.
regards mark

[tiger@tigress]

Hey Ladyskype,
I may not be good with relationships (especiall just now!) lol. But i am pretty good with character and behaviour or people. Your hubby appears to be having a self esteem crisis. He is starting to doubt you and your loyalty for him. This is quite usual for guys of this age - i think we all go through it. He probably thinks that by not wearing these things you are showing he is not the provider in your relationship. Like many men do not like a girl to earn a lot of money because then they can be independant. Talk to him and tell him how you feel - he just needs to feel wanted and needed - by controlling you he is making himself feel like a better man. It takes a few more years and experiences before most men learn to appreciate a girl and treat her as a true equal.
regards mark

Make an extra effort to me him feel secure and loved