sadness

[grahamw48]

I'm sure that does happen Steve.

[bigmac]

right old farts

oy--wotchit you--i'm a new fart

odd though--fart got past admin--but yesterday i wrote ess ache one tee and it got deleted & i got told off (sorry admin xx )

[nnomad]

sorry i do not know much about the visa thing,, but 5 years with this man is maybe too much to suffer just to gain a visa to stay in a country where her future is, to say the least, uncertain,,,, but only the OP knows what awaits her back in philli, yes her son and family , but what else, we can all imagine... criticising her actions or lack of foresight may make some posters feel clever but is not really what this lady needs .

[grahamw48]

sorry i do not know much about the visa thing,, but 5 years with this man is maybe too much to suffer just to gain a visa to stay in a country where her future is, to say the least, uncertain,,,, but only the OP knows what awaits her back in philli, yes her son and family , but what else, we can all imagine... critisising her actions or lack of foresight may make some posters feel clever but is not really what this lady needs .

I don't think anyone has criticised HER actions or lack of foresight, rather, virtually every response has been particularly sympathetic towards her.

After all, it is principally the lady who is putting her trust in the sponsor in these situations.

[grahamw48]

Why ?

[nnomad]

i was refering to the thread " when the end comes "

[grahamw48]

Ah, ok.

[grahamw48]

Now that post deserves some rep !

[Marie]

So sorry to hear this Shandylove...so many advise here...mine is only for you to keep calm, be alert everytime there's an argument and pray....hard this is but you need to face it and be brave.....if you have facebook account let us know....take care and God Bless