I hope you don"t give up on this and you are able to work this out, you must sit down with him and have a good conversation to try and resolve any issues between you, its no good if you are sad and living in a new country and thousands of miles away from your homeland, its going to take a lot of effort on both sides to get there but hopefully if you stay strong then things can work out, just think of what attracted you to your husband before all this come to an head and try and get back to how you were before, but the best way is like I said to both sit down and try and work this out, I wish you all the best and hopefully a happy outcome, please if you ever need to talk here there are plenty of good people here and I am sure more will come along to give advice take care and God Bless.