tread very carefully im not being sexist when i say women can be very convincing and able to turn on and off the tears as and when they want, im not saying she is, just be cautious ,

another thing if she's playing games with her x bf, like that (the kiss you all over thing) what if he gets jealous, when he knows about you,
ok she shown you messages, face book etc, you still cant be certain of her motive of breaking the old sim, and new cel no/ a photo of a destroyed sim, could be any sim, it proves nothing ,

is this the one you wanted to buy cel phone and post to her, you asked about world remit for sending money,
slow down with her, dont send anything else, if you already have, 2 months isn't long,