well once amalayer always amalayer if she lied to you then sorry i would bale out there are thousands of genuine and loving girls out here but also thousands of scammers too.Like one poster said they can have more than one foreigner on the go at the same time .Where i live there are 2 girls with foreign boyfriends and both have kids to them when they go home their philippino boyfriends come out of hiding and carry on living together simply because they send money to them and the boyfriends can live off the money thats being sent ,now if thats happening on my doorstep imagine how many more there are .So yes the crocodile tears can be turned on and off like a tap she maybe crying only because she got caught .so my advice would be move on you may have to bump into a few bad ones to find the girl of your dreams good luck