I think I need advice about what to do...

[melovesengland]

Good point.

She did email him to say not to contact her anymore and that she was sorry to play games with him and that she was very happy with me. I saw the email. She also messaged him on yahoo messenger and I saw that also. I have her log in passwords so I know she sent them.

I will be careful though.

TRUST for me is like a GLASS, once its broken you can NEVER ever put it back together again.

Did she sent all the messages on her own will or you have told her to do so? Are you VERY SURE that she surrender all of her emails and accounts to you and not hiding couple anymore?

It must have been hard for you Cheekee and I do feel for you, Im really sorry.

Just OPEN your eyes WIDELY if you want to give it another go so you can see things clearly. You know what I mean?

Its only you who can solve this we are just your back-up when times get tough.

We'll support you still no matter what.

[andy222]

I think your paranoid now mate. You have uncovered her messages on these sites. Dont forget you are 7000 miles apart. The question is can you trust her?. Its hard being that far apart believe me I know. The problem you have got now is that you will go over there and meet her and probably spend your vacation just with her. Then you will come back here and after a few weeks you will be loggging into her accounts again to see what you can find.

[cheekee]

TRUST for me is like a GLASS, once its broken you can NEVER ever put it back together again.

Did she sent all the messages on her own will or you have told her to do so? Are you VERY SURE that she surrender all of her emails and accounts to you and not hiding couple anymore?

It must have been hard for you Cheekee and I do feel for you, Im really sorry.

Just OPEN your eyes WIDELY if you want to give it another go so you can see things clearly. You know what I mean?

Its only you who can solve this we are just your back-up when times get tough.

We'll support you still no matter what.

She sent the messages of her own accord.

[cheekee]

I think your paranoid now mate. You have uncovered her messages on these sites. Dont forget you are 7000 miles apart. The question is can you trust her?. Its hard being that far apart believe me I know. The problem you have got now is that you will go over there and meet her and probably spend your vacation just with her. Then you will come back here and after a few weeks you will be loggging into her accounts again to see what you can find.

I'm not paranoid now. I think I was in the beginning. But each day has got better. She was used badly so I have to think about that also.

[grahamw48]

Try not to take it all too seriously.

You will know better once you've met.

None of us would be normal if we hadn't had exes ...or even 'passing fancies'.

[andy222]

I'm not paranoid now. I think I was in the beginning. But each day has got better. She was used badly so I have to think about that also.

Thats good to hear. You will be different when you meet. The atmosphere in cebu is great thats what i found anyway.

[cheekee]

Thats good to hear. You will be different when you meet. The atmosphere in cebu is great thats what i found anyway.

I know. I cant wait to go really. Seeing all her family on cam. Have met her mum and dad on cam already. I know that was a huge thing for her to do. They all really like me.

[andy222]

You will be made to feel welcome dont worry. That is another difference between pinoys and other asian subcontinents.

[karenkeith]

Ask God,and pray if you have second thoughts regarding this matters,..or give yourself some space,if you want to have a peace of mind.It will be hard for you to trust her again coz of this right?..i just felt sorry for you,you seems so nice and genuine,you deserve what you were looking for in the future...

-good luck and God bless you..