thnx.. yeah,, his father's never been there but what i think will complicate my son's application is that i've been away for years. i first came here in uk last 2008 though i've visited him last 2010, i didn't stay long. i'm just hoping that me staying in phils for 7 months last year will convince them that i am still solely responsible for my son.

i have talked to my caseworker when i applied for my visa but i forgot to mention that i've been away for years. i'm glad i've found this post as it did answer some of my question and i somehow know now what to do. hope this will help others..