In a relationship you need trust, communication, respect apart from love. It needs to come as a package.

I understand his side of being paranoid because he cant understand your native lengua BUT its not right if he said unacceptable words to your family, friends and specailly to you. thats a big

I understand your side of trying to make him understand whats going on and what youre friends have said on the social networking site BUT you should consider that your dialect is one of the most hard dialects ever to understand.

I am bisaya (davao) and my husband is very open to listen to me whats the meaning of the messages my friends sent me, also he tried his best to search the meaning on the internet and ask me if that is right. dialects/lanuages is never EVER a barrier between me and him.

I guess, if you both try to reach out again, give one more try and you know talk and explain things further to each other then it might help the GAP and tension that you having now in the relationship.

To YOUR BOYFRIEND: Try to understand that we have our own way of communicating, you should respect what your partners using. If she means to you, dont wait for the time that she'll give you up because of you being a nutter.

To YOU: If you cant stand things that he have said and things that he might say then leave him, YOU dont deserve to be treated like that.