Originally Posted by
Iani
He's lying to you.
He cheated on you by signing up to that site in the first place, he promised you that he would keep off - and now he has started using it again.
What the hell does he think he is playing at, and why would he do this.
Now I don't expect you to answer this on here (For goodness sake, please DON'T), but you need to have a hard think about your relationship. Ask yourself these questions -
How is your sex life?
Do you make sure he knows how loved he is?
Do you show him affection "for no reason", do you ever grab his bum as he walks past, give him a hug when he doesn't expect it?
Do you have time to listen to his worries, and for him to listen to yours?
This might be hard to listen to - but do you look after yourself, wash, shave anywhere that needs shaving? I know that might sound insulting, but sometimes in a relationship, people let themselves go and don't bother with personal upkeep, it is a major source of disrespect for the other partner.
Or, do you spend so much time working, being out, that there is no love or time left for him?
If you can answer favourably to all of the above, then......actually I just deleted what I was going to put, I find what he's doing disgraceful.
If perhaps things could be better in the relationship, then it's got to be worth working on.
The thing is, there are many reasons people cheat in relationships, and unless we have been there, we can't comment or judge - in fact we should never judge.
The only people who should be making the decisions in this, are you and your husband
I really hope you can sort this one way or the other.
Lucky for you though you never let on he was talking to your account, it means you know what's going on, instead of being there in the dark
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