Another great read Ricky.
About the Adultery......yes I'm very concerned for you and your sweetheart.
You can check this out.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...e-help-us.html
There is also a TV document about this story.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRUIJx-02lI
I am not trying to scare you off.....but please take this very very seriously...I have been living here for along time now and the authorities love to make example of foreigners. Listen very closely to what your Attorney says and keep everything close to you chest.
Good luck and I dearly hope this will workout for you both.
Koala