Been discussing marriage today. She wants to have a civil marriage in the Philippines. I said I would like to have a second marriage in the future in the UK so my family can see me get married, she wasn't too keen on this idea.

She wants to come to the UK to be with me but said it will be easier if we are married first.

I did tell her that we should meet in person first as we have only ever video chatted on skype, it's all moving a bit fast, only met her in October. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her, she says she wants the same. So throwing caution to the wind I am going for it. Just a case of when she can get out of her contract in Singapore and get home to Philippines. She doesn't want me to come to Singapore as she works 14 hour days and can only see me Sundays.


Whoops, put this in the wrong place!! Was meant to be in my other thread a few posts down, sorry!