Guys...I suggest you bear this in mind

[Ako Si Jamie]

scammers, users or abusers what ever you want to call them, some could ask you for money within mins, some could take weeks or months to gain your trust before they indirectly ask you , some people on this forum have even married scammers. so there is no typical scammer.

Everyone who enters this process should note this piece of advice. Just because she's never asked for money, doesn't mean she won't. In my case it was two years down the line but it was infrequent small amounts. By the third year BOOM it escalated and so did the amounts.

[Michael Parnham]

Everyone who enters this process should note this piece of advice. Just because she's never asked for money, doesn't mean she won't. In my case it was two years down the line but it was infrequent small amounts. By the third year BOOM it escalated and so did the amounts.

I think also that in some cases if you spoil your lady it can after a while become expected, just be sensible!

[Ako Si Jamie]

I think also that in some cases if you spoil your lady it can after a while become expected, just be sensible!

The first time I spoilt Maria was three years down the line when I bought her a top in a mall in Dagupan. Set me back 350 pesos.

Seriously though, I think spoiling women in the early stages is not a good tactic. Learnt this from an early age and found to my annoyance that most were unappreciative. Best way is to keep your bucks in your pocket and let one's personality do the talking.

[stevewool]

I think also that in some cases if you spoil your lady it can after a while become expected, just be sensible!

It is always nice to spoil someone even yourself sometimes but its good to say no too, just wait a while, then they may forget they wanted it