Welcome KUKU to the site im glad the site helps you as many Women think why can't he fly here straight away, but for some its not as easy as for others for allsorts of reasons.
I was lucky I was able to go over quite soon after forst meeting but i can think of times when that would have taken far longer to achieve.

One thing is for sure with all the letters emails and phone calls your have lots of evidence to show your a loving couple.