i,ma a filipina, married to a divorced white british. One day we visit his daughter, 30-year old, with her live-in partner, and 4-year old adopted son to her house. We were expected to come that day. We came to her house while they were eating dinner. I was shocked because, when we came, they continued eating, not even bothered to invite. We will not eat anyway bec we just had something before we came. It's a shock on my side because in my country, you are always be asked if you had your dinner yet, or even invite us to join them, just a jesture of respect.. You know what i mean? I felt uncomfortable, while my husband didn't seemed bothered. He made himself a cup of tea instead. I can't stand the rudeness... Sorry, but if they come to my house, the first thing i do is put the kettle on., and make them sandwich, or offer some food that is available. That's how we, filipino brought up... What can you say??