thats the problem, i do know him, hes what you would call a slob,over weight and has him own little ways of life,yes there may be someone out there for him, but i think i may give him some names of sites here in england first,dont get me wrong hes a good man but a slob still,you can imagine a lady from the east that would do everything for him and what does she get in return, well each to their own