her new bf has more money than i could dream of lol, it sounds like you have been down the same road as me bigmarco ? i want to re,marry with my new gf as i can see she is a much better person, i could wait till October and that would be 5 years then divorce then apply for my gf,s visa, tourist visa would be out of the question i think and from what i,ve been told, thanks for the help