Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
A very reasonable question, and I agree, a confusing situation.

Opinions on this please ?
Fair point, ! And I can see where the girl's coming from ... she's really desperate to be completely truthful and honest in the application she aspires to make soon - yet is, naturally enough, getting when reading the implication about it being advisable to "play down the *romantic angle" *which IS, of course, the very reason she, herself, is hoping to apply in the first place.

So ... ... what's she supposed to do?