Any ideas ?

[grahamw48]

A very reasonable question, and I agree, a confusing situation.

Opinions on this please ?

[Arthur Little]

A very reasonable question, and I agree, a confusing situation.

Opinions on this please ?

Fair point, ! And I can see where the girl's coming from ... she's really desperate to be completely truthful and honest in the application she aspires to make soon - yet is, naturally enough, getting when reading the implication about it being advisable to "play down the *romantic angle" *which IS, of course, the very reason she, herself, is hoping to apply in the first place.

So ... ... what's she supposed to do?

[iamiyah]

Fair point, And I can see where the girl's coming from ... she's really desperate to be completely truthful and honest in the application she aspires to make soon - yet is, naturally enough, getting when reading the implication about it being advisable to "play down the *romantic angle *which IS, of course, the very reason she, herself, is hoping to apply in the first place.

So ... ... what's she supposed to do?

Salamt po Mr. ARrthur

Again my sincere apology regarding the issue of me being rude.TBH I was hurt upon reading it but I do understand I made mistakes but as I mentioned earlier I do have enormous respect for everyone in here and was never raised by my parents to be like that. :

The forum is only what I have now. Being far from my family and living in a desert where English wasn't the medium of communication, I been struggling to ask for help and advice. These forum and the the kind people I met here has been my humble abode and family during the lowest days of my life and now the hope in my heart to see him again.

As mentioned earlier I am just trying the best that I can be to analyze situations from all view points that might help me in my application with all honesty and truth.

I am just confused upon reading that and my intention in asking that post is to gather an advice that will help me and as well as those others whose desire is to spend time with their loved ones w/o the plan of settling yet to UK.

Salamat po for the patience and understanding. My intention is good and my heart means well.

I will try my very best to be more sensitive in posting and replying my post in here.

Respectfully yours,
Iyah