well a work colleague not a friend,anyway hes been dating a lady from the phils, she is here working as a home help come nanny i think the family she works for brought here with them from hong kong, the thing is she is married but not seen her husband for well over 13 years he walked out aand left her with a son, the son is at uni over in the phils, he wants to marry her so what is the best way, he is not short of a few bob too,