Hey, I understand your frustration but being so impatient doesn't help at al!!
this is a free website... like our admin's assistant said it would be harder if you apply for a visit visa.. so guess you will have to apply for a fiancée visa, UKBA become more strict than before so be prepared, submit all necessary documents ,proof that you have a strong relationship etc. and a healthy bank account from you BF counts! Good luck hunny x