Quote Originally Posted by Slip View Post

... although we have only been chatting online for about 3/4 months now and have never met in person, I just know she is the one for me.

I do believe she is 100% for real.
Perhaps I can reassure you about similar vibes I'd been receiving in the course of my online correspondence with a Filipina (widowed like myself) back in 2007/8.

Quote Originally Posted by Slip View Post
I know this forum wont judge me.
It's not our policy to pass judgement ... each member has the right as an individual to live his/her life according to how he/she sees fit.

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So if I didn't take this risk I may always be wondering what if.
... after almost a year of emailing one another, I stopped asking myself, "what if ... ?". And, without further deliberation, I then went and booked a flight to go out and visit the aforementioned lady in the Philippines. Thus ...

... here I am 41/2 years later ... happily married to my Mahal, blissfully aware of having taken one of THE best decisions I'd ever made - or would even have thought possible at my advanced age.