Quote Originally Posted by Steve.r View Post
I will offer congratulations Slip.

But.. until you have met in person, please keep an open mind and fare with extreme caution. Just because you have asked her to marry you and she has accepted, does not mean that (at this point) that you are in any way obliged to support her or her family or extended family.
The first thing you need to do is arrange to go and see her in person and see how the real person measures up to her online personality. I really hope she is for real, I hope all she has told you is for real, but... she is still not your resonsibility and you are not her or her family's 'cash cow' Do not make a rod for your own back right now.

Good luck.... but eyes open please.
... sensible, down to Earth advice, Steve!