I should say she asked me not to say anything until she could tell her family. I have her Sister as a friend and she didn't want her Sister to hear about it first from a status update!
Since I made this post she has told her family and I have told a few people and although I haven't changed my relationship status on facebook to engaged, she has.
Off course I do take on board Steve's advice and Angellegwen's. Believe me when I say I will not be sending money to anyone. It may not sound like it, but I dont fool easily and even the slightest hint that something isn't right then I will not be going ahead with it.
I honestly feel she is for real......but I don't want to be left thinking about the one that got away in years to xcome because I was overcautious, sometimes you really do have to throw caution to the wind.......