well we all have to go through this so how do you sort it out, we are trying to plan a trip back home thats if Ems can get the time off work and going so far you have to be gone more then just the two weeks, thats just my thought though, but what happens if you can only get 2 weeks, visiting the family is a must but also for me its a holiday, i want to see a beach or a mountain, to spend quality time not just sitting in someones house smilling and thinking i would like to be somewhere differant, our next few trips we are hoping to look for places to settle one day but i know Ems needs are to be close to her family, yes they can come with us but its all money, so any ideas , if we get the 4 weeks off work then there is no problem , but working for the NHS at xmas time too, i dont think we will get that time