hmmnnn im doing a poll coz my husband said its unfair that he's rationed to go out with friends (w/0 me) 2x a month and 2x a month diving (without me), so that's 4x a month...and with he's diving, if he for instance doesnt use he's priveledge, he can use it for the next month or so...no expiry...

whereas i don't go out except sunday going to church and buying some groceries. And the times we go out together or with the whole family.
Am I too bad (he said i am ) ?