so you both came to the UK together? he wasn't in the UK when you applied for your visit visa?

read this .. http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....971#post383971

and

http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/vi...pplying-in-uk/

you could try and apply for FLR(M) but UKBA would not like it, and might well end up in a refusal and you could be waiting along time.