How many Steve's are there? And here's me thinking I was unique. Hehehe!

That is true. Every couple have their ups and downs and disagreements, etc. but if you truly love each other you can get through it.

I have not been to the Philippines, yet, but I do have a plan to go. I am not sure going there to look for someone will be a good idea. I think that may take the enjoyment away from exploring the country, because that will be all I would concentrate on, if that makes sense? If I meet someone I want it to be....how can I explain.....natural? Something that happens accidentally. I guess that sounds almost fatalistic. If it happens it happens, kind of think.

To be honest. I am a little nervous of dating sites. I did try one. But the girl ended up asking for money for a phone, and then money to buy food for her family, etc. However, that is one girl among millions of others, and I never judge a nation on the actions of one (or a minority)

Also, since finding out about my ex-wife's affair (3 years ago) I lost a lot of confidence and find it a little hard to talk to women with the few of dating, marriage etc. plus I am not a good looking chap, by any means.

But I really cannot stand being alone anymore.

I would like to meet that special someone and I hope a girl here will take some interest in me or know someone that might be interested in me.