Thank you melovesengland and galing Mr Terpe..we use the UKBA website to get all our info but sometimes it is very confusing kasi they not give all the info we require.. i search for the EEA route but i could not find anything here or there. can i ask what this is?? i think it is living in a EU country until Armelyn (Armie) is granted citizenship there? we would consider this as it would take so long to be able to get spouse visa here. she is a teacher but i am considered unskilled so can anyone suggest a suitable country for us to research? i am thinking the good ol' emerald isle kasi it is close to uk and english speaking too,has anyone any experience about this?
i am more optimistic of our future together na..it becomes easy to lose hope due to the bobo rules here but sana we can be together soon again
once again many thanks for your replies

Neil and Armie