Please don't be offended by my opinon I have a Husband who I can rely on for that.
I was rubbishing dating sites??.. just giving a heads up to a fellow forum member, besides in either way its a case of buyer beware as it is in any relationship where you havent know the person for a length of time and even then you don't really know a person till you have to live with them.
So, you can now borrow my step ladder if you wish so you can climb down of your high horse. Here endeth the lesson.