yes its a big mess and im not yet giving up but it doesnt look easy at all. its really sad the way the system here works sometimes but there are a few options going so im really not sure right now. just finding it hard last week or so to come up with any real ideas, thats why im posting on here looking for advice.
yes there are plenty more fish in the sea you are correct but everyone is an individual and theres only one her and on my 31 years on this earth shes the nicest ive come across so its hard to just give up like that.
there is a slight possibility she could find work in europe, maybe cyprus. its extremely small chance right now tho. but would that be of any help in obtaining a eu visa/passport or something???
and thanks for the info akilah, and yes student visa isnt going to happen lol but thanks for the info