Me , i come here because my husband lives and works here and it's so hard for me to live alone in the PI without my husband by myside ! When my husband retires we go back to Philippines to live ... as of now i am still looking for a job so that i can help my husband to pay ILR ! U.K is nice to live but all is expensive here bills left and right .... I feel so sorry to my husband but we need to be brave , we need to be strong ... i know that when we go back home we can rest a bit because my mum give me a share where we can build a house , not so bad isn't it? Myrna