ahhhhhh i hate dis feeling,,,

[Philip]

I think you should write a nice thought out email explaining how you feel and why you're feeling this way. Maybe also ask your husband what can you do to make things easier for him. A bit of give and take!?

I found the visa process very stressful and worrying and it was hard to switch off and find time away from all the things I needed to know, research and prepare for the application.

One of the benefits of my work is that I am finished by about 12 noon most days, this allowed me time to stay in contact with Tonet more than if I had a 9-5 job.

Something that did change during this time was my social life, I rarely went out. That was my choice though, so perhaps your husband is simply finding it difficult to balance all the things going on in his life!?

I hope things work out for you both asap!!!

[andypaul]

I think you should write a nice thought out email explaining how you feel and why you're feeling this way. Maybe also ask your husband what can you do to make things easier for him. A bit of give and take!?

I found the visa process very stressful and worrying and it was hard to switch off and find time away from all the things I needed to know, research and prepare for the application.

One of the benefits of my work is that I am finished by about 12 noon most days, this allowed me time to stay in contact with Tonet more than if I had a 9-5 job.

Something that did change during this time was my social life, I rarely went out. That was my choice though, so perhaps your husband is simply finding it difficult to balance all the things going on in his life!?

I hope things work out for you both asap!!!

Well put phillp

I think the well put emaill is vital making it clear that you are worried about the time you spend together and can you work out something. Is there anything that you can do to help him?

Many Brit blokes ( i guess blokes all around the world) want to sort out everything themselevs and not bother others with their problems.

If ways of cheap or cheaper communcation are needed the people on here are just waiting for you to post a question if none of the posts on the subject can help you

One simple way is if you are both avaiable when the other is unavaiable is to write long emails to one another ( the old fasihoned love letter no less)