Filipina's or anyone for that matter who were interested in what you are looking for would probably be on the websites you are already a member of, so why come to a forum specifically for people with an interest in British and Filipino culture?
I don't think anyone really cares about what you are into in your personal life, but the good people here will take exception to you coming here specifically looking for someone to be on the end of your whip or whatever it is you like to use. This is for people genuinely looking for love, not sex slaves.