Quote Originally Posted by Steve.r View Post
Yes, I disagree with this strongly.

As I said before, don't make a rod for your own back. Arrive with an arm load of JollieBee and you will have friends forever. Enough said.

Maybe later (ie 2nd 3rd visit) you will know the lay of the land or know who is who and who is going to try to fleece you, when you know this then, if you feel it appropriate, bring them small gifts. Buying shirts for people you don't know, or buying the wrong sizes or for those who wouldn't wear them is a waste of money in my opinion.
I understand your point of view but what is the problem with buying your parents in law a small gift?

There are a lot of people who live in the Philippines that are not going to try and fleece you.