Morning all

[Steve.r]

I understand your point of view but what is the problem with buying your parent in laws a small gift?
There are a lot of people who live in the Philippines that are not going to try and fleece you.

I don't believe the OP is in fact married yet, but the first impression would be one of giving respect and to be humbled to be invited into another person's home. A firm hand shake to the father and mother and a kind, honest smile will go further than an ill fitting union jack tee shirt. As I remember, the first time I met my wife's mother I held her hand and gave her a kiss on both cheeks (continental style) lol, she wasn't expecting that, that was for sure, but it broke the ice and I never gave her any gifts.

[jake]

I don't believe the OP is in fact married yet, but the first impression would be one of giving respect and to be humbled to be invited into another person's home. A firm handshake to the father and mother and a kind, honest smile will go further than an ill fitting union jack tee shirt. As I remember, the first time I met my wife's mother I held her hand and gave her a kiss on both cheeks (continental style) lol, she wasn't expecting that, that was for sure, but it broke the ice and I never gave her any gifts.

I agree with you giving respect is the most important.

The OP did ask about bringing gifts and I did say it would be nice to give something to your partner's parents and some chocolate for any kids in the family.

The point I was making is that it is still traditional for people coming from overseas - or even another province - to bring some sort of gift. Doesn't have to be expensive as it's the thought that counts. Maybe I shouldn't have used t shirts as an example!

My late father in law used to feel cold if the temperature dropped below 25 degrees. If I was coming from abroad I would always bring him woolly socks or a fleece. He loved 'em!

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