trust

[Mich]

how do you deal with someone who have trust issues?

[KeithD]

Lie to them to make them feel better

[bigtombowski]

what sort of issues mitch?

[LEAHnew]

Trust is virtue of an individual who earned from he/she really love...

I'm gonna add from Mitch thread.... How trust earned?

[PeterB]

This is so difficult, particularly in a long-distance relationship! Trust has to be earned and learned .. it takes time to achieve this, but only a second to lose it.

Doubts are natural, especially with all the rumours and reputations surrounding filipina/western relationships.

I can only recommend patience, understanding and tolerance.

If you would like more help with this, from the perspective of a western male, I think I would prefer to do this by private conversation. Please feel free to PM me, or chat to me on yahoo.

[Shifty-Sidney]

Trust is easy to give, but often abused.
Trust is hard to earn and easy to loose,
Trust is a lot like love - always make sure you give more than you expect to receive,

[pennybarry]

Long distance relationship is really hard, a little shortcoming can make my husband turned into bad mood He always saying maybe I found another guy but really I have lots and lots of patience Until I lost my temper and shouted him "IF YOU DON'T TRUST ME DUMP ME" since then, I never heard him telling such things

[LEAHnew]

Trust is easy to give, but often abused.
Trust is hard to earn and easy to loose,
Trust is a lot like love - always make sure you give more than you expect to receive,

Very nice words Mark.... I'm sure many girls been fascinated to ur lines..No wonder many girls will wait you here...

[Les_lady888]

"The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we're afraid. We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we'll lose it. We fear that if we do not have love we will be unhappy.....so we end up with lies....not knowing that the more we lie the more we lose a great opportunity of a great love.

[uli43]

When my son was about 7, he lied to me. A perfect lie. I found it out. I told him if you lie once, people will never know again if you tell the truth or not. They will never trust you. He learned the lesson.

I guess the only way to gain trust is to be honest.

And I think at the end of the day you know whom you can trust or not.

It's true that long-term relationship is a problem, makes it harder to trust. Because it is much easier to lie. You only rely on what the other tells you. It's a big test, or a trial, as Lizyl would call it.

[PeterB]

That was a brave thing to do, Penny!

[KeithD]

That was a brave thing to do, Penny!

She had hold of his testicles at the time

[pennybarry]

That was a brave thing to do, Penny!

Yes, I have always my limitations. He knows how loooooong is my patience, the only thing I hate is if somebody shouted at me, no matter who you are, I'll fight you back ahahaha. NO BULLYING PLEASE Sabi nga nila, MAKE LOVE NOT WAR

[KeithD]

Mitch! i dunno if your a filippina or a man.

Trust me......she's all woman......no dangly bits

[fred]

Trust me......she's all woman......no dangly bits

he he.. Wait till they get older!!

[joebloggs]

MITCH A GUY



time someone went to spec savers

oh wife definantley says shes a lady, wife is a doc and can tell by the bone structure, etc .. and shes's 99% accutrate. or your money back

[tiger@tigress]

MITCH A GUY

time someone went to spec savers
oh wife definantley says shes a lady, wife is a doc and can tell by the bone structure, etc .. and shes's 99% accutrate. or your money back

[Mich]

do i look like a GUY?

[Mich]

MITCH A GUY



time someone went to spec savers

oh wife definantley says shes a lady, wife is a doc and can tell by the bone structure, etc .. and shes's 99% accutrate. or your money back

thanks Papa Joe!

[kimmi]

yes Mitch, wot's that trust issue again?

[Mich]

thanks guys.

i was just wondering about trust. why is it so hard to trust again after having bad relationships?

[KeithD]

thanks guys.

i was just wondering about trust. why is it so hard to trust again after having bad relationships?

It isn't, that's all in the mind. Old is th epast, can't be changed. Enjoy today, and start a new, could be dead tomorrow, no use letting the past cripple YOUR future because of someone else's .

[aromulus]

In God we trust.......

Everybody else pays cash.........

Ok, ok.....

[zef]

“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy”