This is so difficult, particularly in a long-distance relationship! Trust has to be earned and learned .. it takes time to achieve this, but only a second to lose it.

Doubts are natural, especially with all the rumours and reputations surrounding filipina/western relationships.

I can only recommend patience, understanding and tolerance.

If you would like more help with this, from the perspective of a western male, I think I would prefer to do this by private conversation. Please feel free to PM me, or chat to me on yahoo.