he wants you to fly 6000 miles around the world to meet him , because he's heard so many bad thnigs about asian women !, yet he's spent 7 months chatting to you, and he don't trust you enough, for him to go and meet you .. i wouldn't let my wife, never mind g/f fly across the world on her own to a strange country... and i don't think many on here would..

he has to go and meet you first, its you who needs to check him out, not him checking you out