For most people this could be a very sensitive and surely a personal subject
... but not for me, I love my family and would do all I can to help...
i'm in a fortunate position that all my family are helping each other because thats the way we were brought up. Also , my husband is the same with his family and our priorites are clear.
The help is not always just financial but when you are so far away from your family it is nice to know that if you are in a position to help a little to return all the love and help you recieved when you were younger, growing up then that should be a given.
Being so far away , I wish I could do more than just send a little money like have a hug or beer or just to sit down and chat face to face with my family members...so dont begrudge sending
a little cash as it could have more of a meaning. Thats my personal view and is not up for debate.

But...if for instance hypothetically anybody was asked to send money to someone they didnt know.
dont like, dont care about or think they dont deserve anything then why would they ask if they should ???
...unless there was more to it or maybe a little guilt??