yes steve you are right there, it is about 1 person, and truth be told again all families have them and its for that family to sort it out,like anything in life you can either go along with it or do something about it,but being new to a mixed marriage and the culture too its good to seek advice from others, how many people tell you no chance i would never give them anything or tell them to go and jump, lots do, but you weigh that up with what you can do,
