Age difference

[blessed_ekim0826]

Hi,
If your partner sponsored your visa application, why did he not bring up any age difference worries before?
unless his family are now saying something to him?

There should be no problems you cannot overcome if you both want to be together, other men may be a bit jealous
Mick.

Yes he did sponsor the visa. He sponsored tourist visa in 2012 but was denied and now is the fiance visa which he thought I couldn't get it. We both want to live together but he is afraid that he might lose his kids and job if I live with him. His family cares other comments than their dads feeling. We already booked my flight but not yet sure if its gonna happen. His kids have probs with my young age or is it really bec of our sex orientation.

[aprilmaejon]

His family cares other comments than their dads feeling. His kids have probs with my young age or is it really bec of our sex orientation.

People comments/talks no matter what the situation is.

{My personal experience:

People talks because I married early. I was 22.
People talks because me and my husband met online.
People thinks that I married my husband only for the sole purpose of getting a British passport.}

People always love to discuss other people's lives...you can't get away with it...

So the best thing to do is just ignore them, get on with your life, focus on building a stronger happy relationship with your partner and be happy. Make him realise that.

And might as well think that your life is more interesting than theirs. People talk about your life because their life is boring, nothing like yours!