Don't get me wrong but I think you are old enough to be given or listen to any advice.
A Perfect example of an ''old man'' who doesn't listen to any advice is my great grandad 85y/o - married his carer (28y/o), yes it amuses all the family to see them together even shocked the whole clan when the wife bear a child
Anyway, after 3 years of marriage he died and he left a ''will'' ...ONLY his son got a share in his properties '' EXCLUDING'' the wife !!.. Smart Aarse!!![]()