Age difference

[mickcant]

I married a Filipina lady in 2008, I was 64 and she was 28, she was a young beautiful woman, but she had no children and, I was worried because I had had the snip around 20 years ago that meant it likely could not be reversed, and I thought at some time she would want children, she assured me she would rather us be together with no children than not, which made me happy.

We had had money issues with her using money I sent for the wedding being used for other things with no explanation but I put that down to her not being used to having money.

We had a big wedding in the Philippines with all her family present, after the wedding and honeymoon she disappeared with money I had left for her visa and fare to the UK, that she insisted she wanted to book herself, she did come to the UK around 18 months later but I soon saw she did not want to be with me, only to be in the UK.

It turned out when she disappeared after our wedding, she was with a boyfriend she had had all along, and they then had a child, which she left with him so she could come to the UK, with of course me paying her visa and fare again.

I loved her but she used that too for her need for money.
Mick.

[chris28]

What a terrible story Mick , we cannot blame most Caucasian doubted filipino woman now because there are lot who became victims like what happened to u. Hope u not mad to all filipina just what happened I know there are some who is not like her.

You must have to be careful next time.

[Rory]

What a terrible story Mick , we cannot blame most Caucasian doubted filipino woman now because there are lot who became victims like what happened to u. Hope u not mad to all filipina just what happened I know there are some who is not like her.

You must have to be careful next time.

In most cases it takes a while before there is a next time if at all.

[mickcant]

What a terrible story Mick , we cannot blame most Caucasian doubted filipino woman now because there are lot who became victims like what happened to u. Hope u not mad to all filipina just what happened I know there are some who is not like her.

You must have to be careful next time.

Hi Chris,

Thank you for your reply and comments.

I do know from the many good marriages in the forum that very few Filipinas act as my ex wife did.

It has not put me off wanting to meet other Filipinas but as I have now turned 70 - and even more because of the higher income requirement to allow me to sponsor another - it just cannot happen.

I first met a Filipina when in hospital and was treated by Filipina nurses then met some in Dubai while visiting my son and his Filipina partner there, I have many good Filipina memories to look back on.

Mick.