My British bf is 30 yrs older than me, he visited me many times. I'm not asking for money from him, but he sent for no reasons. And everytime he came here to Phils, I always show to him his money that he sent to me...I told him 'I chose u not because of ur money, but for ur attitudes, that u can handle me when I have this 'tantrums' or when I feel sad...in a simple way he can make me smile...most of the time, he acts as a joker...just to make me laugh in times that I'm lonely when we're together..or even when we are apart...but in the end ..he will say "the money that I sent to u before, we use it for the rest of the days I am here in the Phils with u"