U got me confused there love and made me eyes hurt on your post sorry to say that.

Anyway, you apply for a fiancee visa because the aim is to get married and settle in the UK after you got the visa granted. Spouse visa is for applicants who are already married to British Citizens that wants to go to the UK and get settled here. Fiancee and Spousal visa timeframe are assessed on your case. It can be quick it can be an agony of wait so bear that in mind.

I dont know if you are allowed to get married in the Philippines before you get granted a fiancee visa or after you lodge your application. Im sure one of the members here will enlighten you.