I'm not sure I understand any of this.
The tourist visa is issued for a validity of 6 months as standard.
When you submitted your visit visa application what was the visit duration you requested?
It's not usual to be refused entry at the border as the holder of a valid visa unless they suspected that you had insufficient funds available to you, or that you were not a genuine tourist with adequate tourism intentions but making the visit for undeclared purposes.
In any case it has no impact or bearing on your application for Spouse/Partner visa for settlement.
Don't understand this either.
I thought you planned to get married in July 2013?
How can you have a passport in married name ? Unless you were previously married and still using that name?
If you were previously married do you have full annulment documentation
The requirement for your passport is for ID checking and for entering the approved visa.
Your passport and the marriage certificate will provide the evidence needed.
Many folks here in UK still have passports in their maiden name despite getting married, applying for a visa, travelling to UK and securing employment here.