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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    Hi Beejudge..Welcome to the friendly FilipinoUk forum.

    Unfortunately I'm taking issue with your post. ;-)

    You say it's acceptable for his girlfriend to be like she is because he didn't give into her demand.

    You also say she is probably like she is because of life's difficulties. ..Hello! ..we have difficulties here as well. ..that doesn't turn the majority into nutters.

    You state that the boyfriend should adapt to the culture of the girlfriend. .I beg to differ. ..they should both adapt to each others culture. ..you see, it's not all about the gf...it's a two way street.

    Mutual respect to be shown by both parties. You mention arguments make couples stronger, absolutely. .I totally agree but, it can also hasten the demise of a relationship built upon a halo halo.

    Perhaps the boyfriend should of gone for a girlfriend in a higher social bracket, the trouble being, those types are somewhat thin on the ground.

    Even so, I'm sending you a rep for your honest contribution.

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    thank you for welcoming me Mark! oh I stand corrected my statement was a bit confusing.. what I was trying to say was MAYBE the gf behaved that way because her demands wasn't given! which absolutely unbecoming! Therefore I say its not acceptable to be like what she is.

    "life's difficulties" all people of all races undergo life's difficulties what i am trying to emphasize is before he will think of ending up maybe he has to weigh things first or talk why she acted that way. the girl could do as well if the guy is acting the same. Communication!

    i would say the same as you said, Both! that is why is said deal with different culture. I mean is both will do. This time he is confused, so he must consider taking a look at this end.

    by the way , I am not in the side of the girl what the girl had shown was pretty much unbecoming but again I cant judge her at the end of the day its still the guy who will make a decision.
    and agree with you.."mutual respect to be shown by both parties"

    I appreciate your reply Mark

    Cheers!


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    Beejudge73....I appreciate the appreciation. That's sure been in short supply. Thanks


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    Quote Originally Posted by beejudge73 View Post
    thank you for welcoming me Mark! oh I stand corrected my statement was a bit confusing.. what I was trying to say was MAYBE the gf behaved that way because her demands wasn't given! which absolutely unbecoming! Therefore I say its not acceptable to be like what she is.

    "life's difficulties" all people of all races undergo life's difficulties what i am trying to emphasize is before he will think of ending up maybe he has to weigh things first or talk why she acted that way. the girl could do as well if the guy is acting the same. Communication!

    i would say the same as you said, Both! that is why is said deal with different culture. I mean is both will do. This time he is confused, so he must consider taking a look at this end.

    by the way , I am not in the side of the girl what the girl had shown was pretty much unbecoming but again I cant judge her at the end of the day its still the guy who will make a decision.
    and agree with you.."mutual respect to be shown by both parties"

    I appreciate your reply Mark

    Cheers!
    I agree with you Beejudge, also Jello hasn't said any more recently, where is he?


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    Quote Originally Posted by beejudge73 View Post
    thank you for welcoming me Mark! oh I stand corrected my statement was a bit confusing.. what I was trying to say was MAYBE the gf behaved that way because her demands wasn't given! which absolutely unbecoming! Therefore I say its not acceptable to be like what she is.

    "life's difficulties" all people of all races undergo life's difficulties what i am trying to emphasize is before he will think of ending up maybe he has to weigh things first or talk why she acted that way. the girl could do as well if the guy is acting the same. Communication!

    i would say the same as you said, Both! that is why is said deal with different culture. I mean is both will do. This time he is confused, so he must consider taking a look at this end.

    by the way , I am not in the side of the girl what the girl had shown was pretty much unbecoming but again I cant judge her at the end of the day its still the guy who will make a decision.
    and agree with you.."mutual respect to be shown by both parties"

    I appreciate your reply Mark

    Cheers!
    Its hard to teach someone mutual respect when they are so isip bata (childish)


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    Its hard to teach someone mutual respect when they are so isip bata (childish)
    Like good manners, it's comes from within. ..an instinctive reaction.


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