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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    Yes i realize that but what happens when the money runs out

    I think spending too much pera on any gf is only going to lead to problems later on
    Excellent post LM....wise words indeed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    Excellent post LM....wise words indeed.
    I've sent you a rep for this.
    I have seen some guys throwing money at their gf's and buying them anything that they ask for
    When the money dries up these guys wonder why the gf walks away

    You cant buy true love but that don't stop some people trying..........


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    I have seen some guys throwing money at their gf's and buying them anything that they ask for
    When the money dries up these guys wonder why the gf walks away

    You cant buy true love but that don't stop some people trying..........
    Thanks LM,
    Forgive me here but, slightly off topic. .the the Filipino partner doesn't always wait until the money runs out before they depart.
    For example, they come over here thinking life's in the west going to be a whole lot better than in The Philippines in most cases, things are but, a few can't make that adjustment. .the realisation that the money is actually worked hard for. ..they witness first hand what the husband/wife has to do, to make things happen.
    A very small minority can't stomach it. Some realise it was a whole bunch easier staying at home in The Philippines, in the warm sunshine, thinking about one's naval, while waiting for the next 10 digit text message.

    It's a shame the 2 countries couldn't get together and work out a way of better of familiarisation before the partner makes that life changing step.

    This is not a broad brush statement. ..many integrate successfully.

    I would also suggest, the guys and girls over here just to take care on who they choose to date. ..just like Jelo.

    Cheers
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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    Thanks LM,
    Forgive me here but, slightly off topic. .the the Filipino partner doesn't always wait until the money runs out before they depart.
    For example, they come over here thinking life's in the west going to be a whole lot better than in The Philippines in most cases, things are but, a few can't make that adjustment. .the realisation that the money is actually worked hard for. ..they witness first hand what the husband/wife has to do, to make things happen.
    A very small minority can't stomach it. Some realise it was a whole bunch easier staying at home in The Philippines, in the warm sunshine, thinking about one's naval, while waiting for the next 10 digit text message.

    It's a shame the 2 countries couldn't get together and work out a way of better of familiarisation before the partner makes that life changing step.

    This is not a broad brush statement. ..many integrate successfully.

    I would also suggest, the guys and girls over here just to take care on who they choose to date. ..just like Jelo.

    Cheers
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    Every person i meet in the Philippines wants to leave the philippines
    I stated this before and was flamed for saying it
    apparently some uncle somewhere is happy to stay there......
    anyway i always tell them that things are not so bad in the philippines and life in the west is no cakewalk
    some of them have rich distant relatives in some far away land who has made pot fulls of money
    its not like that for everyone i tell them
    Most are very shocked when i inform them that i work 13 days out of 14
    I get the impression that some people in the Phills think that life in the west is like an episode of the American sitcom "friends" where nobody goes to work and everyone sits around laughing and joking all day
    i think this is very much a case of the grass is always greener on the other side

    Yes i know there is a lot of poverty in the Philippines and finding work is not easy either
    But living your life on some crime ridden English council estate is not so great as well


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    But living your life on some crime ridden English council estate is not so great as well
    I really have been watching too much Jeremy Kyle recently on catch up tv lol..... but i agree with you.
    If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    Every person i meet in the Philippines wants to leave the philippines
    I stated this before and was flamed for saying it
    apparently some uncle somewhere is happy to stay there......
    anyway i always tell them that things are not so bad in the philippines and life is the west is no cakewalk
    some of them have rich distant relatives in some far away land who has made pot fulls of money
    its not like that for everyone i tell them
    Most are very shocked when i inform them that i work 13 days out of 14
    I get the impression that some people in the Phills think that life in the west is like an episode of the American sitcom "friends" where nobody goes to work and everyone sits around laughing and joking all day
    i think this is very much a case of the grass is always greener on the other side

    Yes i know there is a lot of poverty in the Philippines and finding work is not easy either
    But living your life on some crime ridden English council estate is not so great as well
    I enjoyed your last two sentences LM. I sure that was for the sensitive amongst us

    Finding worthwhile employment in the Philippines is nigh on impossible. .unless you happen to know somebody who knows somebody.
    My Father in Law worked in the middle east for the same rate of pay he would of got doing the same job in his homeland, The Philippines. Here in UK folks won't leave there hometown to improve their lot, let alone seek employment.

    Not sure about crime ridden council estates ...I'll agree with Steve. .
    ....too much Jeremy Kyle!


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