he didn't do it to test me, it was actually me who test him.
you see, i'm kinda weird woman, i like scaring a man off instead of impressing him.my hubby has no idea of the reputation of asians so i told him that some asians are desperate to stay here that they pretend they love their boyfriend to lure him to marry her ( i told him this few days after he found out that my visa is about to expire and i'm struggling to get a new one). i intentionally scare him by saying that i have massive loan from the bank and that i have a big family who needs supporting which will be a responsibility of my future husband..
i always do this to men who shows interest at me and guess what all of them run miles away from me except my hubby.
my hubby told me that it did scare him but somehow he felt that he can trust me so he still marries me..