I Think I really need help!

[limbowoman]

Limbowoman, I'm so sorry to hear you story and as an Englishman happily married to a Filipina I would just like to say, Please get out of your marriage, it will only get worse. You deserve more from your husband and he's treating you so very badly. I've seen this situation many times before with married English couples, it will not get better, he's not a good man. Read all the links that you have been given and start a better life for yourself.Take care.

Thank you, I will do

[grahamw48]

It's time to move on and leave that family behind.

No point in dwelling on what was not meant to be.

You're a free human being with lots of life to enjoy, ahead of you.

Keep us informed on how you are coping.

[limbowoman]

It's time to move on and leave that family behind.

No point in dwelling on what was not meant to be.

You're a free human being with lots of life to enjoy, ahead of you.

Keep us informed on how you are coping.

Truly I will and thank you

[Trefor]

Sorry to hear all this. What person acts like this and then calls themselves a man? It makes me embarrassed to be a man.

I strongly suggest you separate your finances right away. Make sure you salary goes into your own account and that he does not have access. Also check for any credit cards in your name he may have access to, and any other paperwork you need to keep safe - especially your passport etc. Lodge them all with a friend if necessary. Find somewhere else to stay and get out of the situation you are in. Then start thinking about next-steps.

Where are you located in the country? Do you have your own friends/friend network to call on if things get messy?

Best of luck to you.

[limbowoman]

Sorry to hear all this. What person acts like this and then calls themselves a man? It makes me embarrassed to be a man.

I strongly suggest you separate your finances right away. Make sure you salary goes into your own account and that he does not have access. Also check for any credit cards in your name he may have access to, and any other paperwork you need to keep safe - especially your passport etc. Lodge them all with a friend if necessary. Find somewhere else to stay and get out of the situation you are in. Then start thinking about next-steps.

Where are you located in the country? Do you have your own friends/friend network to call on if things get messy?

Best of luck to you.

Thank you Trefor I am from Cheshire, yeah I have few nice friends here, actually they are scared of my husband also, but they dont hate my husband its just they dont like his attitude,